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What Is Empathy in Counselling and Why Does It Matter?
Empathy in counselling means understanding a client's inner world from their perspective. Learn what Rogers meant by it, how it differs from sympathy, and why it matters.
14 hours ago4 min read


Reflection and Feedback Aren't Optional. They're How You Grow.
Reflection and feedback aren't extras. They're how you notice blind spots, identify learning needs, and grow as a counsellor. Here's why they're essential.
3 days ago7 min read


What Is CPCAB Level 2?
CPCAB Level 2 is the Certificate in Counselling Skills and the entry point for counselling training in the UK. Learn what it covers, how it is assessed, and what comes next.
4 days ago4 min read


How to Give Feedback Without Being a Dick About It
Giving feedback is awkward. You don't want to hurt feelings or sound judgemental. Here's how to be honest, specific, and kind all at once.
Apr 77 min read


Paraphrasing Skills in Counselling: What They Are and How to Use Them
Paraphrasing in counselling means reflecting back what a client said in your own words. Learn what the skill involves, how to use it, and the most common mistakes helpers make.
Apr 15 min read


How to Help Someone Meet Their Objectives (Not Yours)
Students impose their agenda when clients are unclear or bring objectives that feel wrong. Learn to work with their objectives, not yours.
Mar 318 min read


How to Show Congruence in Counselling (With Practical Examples)
Congruence in counselling means your inner experience and outer expression match. Learn what it looks like in practice with real session examples and how to develop it.
Mar 305 min read


The Way You Relate to People Is Your Most Important Tool
Your relational capacity is your most important tool, not your techniques. Learn why examining how you relate to people is essential counselling work.
Mar 248 min read


Why You Must Recognise Your Own Prejudices in Counselling
Unexamined prejudice shapes what you hear and how you respond. Learn why recognising your own prejudices matters in counselling and what CPCAB Level 2 students need to know.
Mar 234 min read


What Helpee Means in Counselling (And Why the Word Matters)
A helpee is the person receiving help in a counselling relationship. Learn what the term means, where it comes from, and how it is used in CPCAB Level 2 training.
Mar 194 min read


How Your Past Influences Your Present (In the Counselling Room)
Your history runs automatically in sessions whether you've examined it or not. Here's how reflecting on your past increases self-awareness in counselling.
Mar 178 min read


What Congruence Means in Counselling (And Why It Matters More Than Any Skill)
Congruence in counselling means being real. It means your inner experience and your outer expression match. What you feel on the inside is what you show on the outside.
Mar 155 min read


What Your Personality Reveals About How You Show Up
Students resist looking at personality, wanting skills instead. But your personality influences every session. Here's what reflecting on it reveals.
Mar 108 min read


How Your Self-Awareness Actually Shows Up in the Room
Knowing yourself and using that knowledge in sessions are different things. Learn how self-awareness actually shows up in counselling practice.
Mar 38 min read


How to Help Someone Figure Out What They Actually Need
Students want to steer clients toward the "real" issue. But counselling means helping people discover their own needs, not identifying needs for them.
Feb 177 min read


Your Difference From Your Client Is Information, Not a Problem
Your difference from your client isn't a barrier. It's valuable information. Learn how to work across difference in counselling with curiosity and empathy.
Feb 106 min read


How to Recognise and Challenge Your Own Prejudices in Counselling
Learn how to recognise and challenge your own prejudices in counselling. Guidance for CPCAB Level 2 students on blind spots and self-awareness work.
Feb 314 min read


What Empathy Really Means in Counselling (Beyond 'I Understand')
Learn what empathy really means in counselling from a person-centred perspective. Guidance for CPCAB Level 2 students on Carl Rogers' core conditions.
Jan 2714 min read


Why the 50-Minute Hour Exists (And What Happens When You Go Over)
Learn why time boundaries matter in counselling. Practical guidance for CPCAB Level 2 students on establishing and maintaining therapeutic time limits. If you're training at CPCAB Level 2, time boundaries will feel unnatural. Rigid. Even cold. You're learning to end sessions at an agreed time , whether or not the conversation feels finished. In training, those sessions might be 15 minutes for practice. In qualified practice, they're typically 50 minutes (the "psychological ho
Jan 2012 min read


How to End a Counselling Session Well (Even When Time Runs Out Mid-Conversation)
Learn how to end counselling sessions appropriately. Practical guidance for CPCAB Level 2 students on managing time boundaries and ending well.
Jan 1316 min read
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