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Reflection and Feedback Aren't Optional. They're How You Grow.
Reflection and feedback aren't extras. They're how you notice blind spots, identify learning needs, and grow as a counsellor. Here's why they're essential.
3 days ago7 min read


How to Give Feedback Without Being a Dick About It
Giving feedback is awkward. You don't want to hurt feelings or sound judgemental. Here's how to be honest, specific, and kind all at once.
Apr 77 min read


How to Help Someone Meet Their Objectives (Not Yours)
Students impose their agenda when clients are unclear or bring objectives that feel wrong. Learn to work with their objectives, not yours.
Mar 318 min read


The Way You Relate to People Is Your Most Important Tool
Your relational capacity is your most important tool, not your techniques. Learn why examining how you relate to people is essential counselling work.
Mar 248 min read


How Your Past Influences Your Present (In the Counselling Room)
Your history runs automatically in sessions whether you've examined it or not. Here's how reflecting on your past increases self-awareness in counselling.
Mar 178 min read


What Your Personality Reveals About How You Show Up
Students resist looking at personality, wanting skills instead. But your personality influences every session. Here's what reflecting on it reveals.
Mar 108 min read


How Your Self-Awareness Actually Shows Up in the Room
Knowing yourself and using that knowledge in sessions are different things. Learn how self-awareness actually shows up in counselling practice.
Mar 38 min read


What Ethics Actually Means in Counselling (Beyond the Rules)
Ethics isn't a tick box exercise. It's the container that holds counselling work safe. Learn what working within an ethical framework actually means.
Feb 247 min read


How to Help Someone Figure Out What They Actually Need
Students want to steer clients toward the "real" issue. But counselling means helping people discover their own needs, not identifying needs for them.
Feb 177 min read


Your Difference From Your Client Is Information, Not a Problem
Your difference from your client isn't a barrier. It's valuable information. Learn how to work across difference in counselling with curiosity and empathy.
Feb 106 min read


How to Recognise and Challenge Your Own Prejudices in Counselling
Learn how to recognise and challenge your own prejudices in counselling. Guidance for CPCAB Level 2 students on blind spots and self-awareness work.
Feb 314 min read


What Empathy Really Means in Counselling (Beyond 'I Understand')
Learn what empathy really means in counselling from a person-centred perspective. Guidance for CPCAB Level 2 students on Carl Rogers' core conditions.
Jan 2714 min read


Why the 50-Minute Hour Exists (And What Happens When You Go Over)
Learn why time boundaries matter in counselling. Practical guidance for CPCAB Level 2 students on establishing and maintaining therapeutic time limits. If you're training at CPCAB Level 2, time boundaries will feel unnatural. Rigid. Even cold. You're learning to end sessions at an agreed time , whether or not the conversation feels finished. In training, those sessions might be 15 minutes for practice. In qualified practice, they're typically 50 minutes (the "psychological ho
Jan 2012 min read


How to End a Counselling Session Well (Even When Time Runs Out Mid-Conversation)
Learn how to end counselling sessions appropriately. Practical guidance for CPCAB Level 2 students on managing time boundaries and ending well.
Jan 1316 min read


When to Ask Questions in Counselling (And When to Stay Quiet)
Learn when to ask questions in counselling and when to stay quiet. Practical guidance for CPCAB Level 2 students on open vs closed questions.
Jan 614 min read


What Good Listening Actually Looks Like in Counselling (It's Not What You Think)
Discover what therapeutic listening really involves. Practical guidance for CPCAB Level 2 students on developing active listening and responding skills.
Dec 30, 202513 min read


How to Stay in Role When Someone Asks You For Advice
Learn how to maintain your helper role when someone asks for advice. Practical guidance for CPCAB Level 2 students on staying in role without giving answers.
Dec 23, 202515 min read


When to Refer Someone On (And How to Do It Without Feeling Like You've Failed)
Learn when and how to refer someone on as a Level 2 helper. Discover why enabling additional support is collaboration, not failure, and how to have the conversation.
Dec 16, 202512 min read


How to Recognise Your Limits as a Counsellor (Without Feeling Like You're Failing)
Learn why recognising your limits as a counsellor is professional strength, not weakness. Practical guidance for CPCAB Level 2 students on working within ability.
Dec 9, 202512 min read


How to Stop Your Own Stuff Getting in the Way of Counselling
Your own feelings will show up in counselling sessions. Learn how to recognise when your stuff is getting in the way, why it matters, and practical ways to work with it.
Dec 2, 202512 min read
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